Whilst in Burger King the other day a bunch of 'alternatively' dressed kids came in, being loud and generally kind of annoying. What really caught my attention was when they decided to discuss 'what' they were - hence the I'm not a goff reference (and yes, she did actually say goof, not goth. Her boyfriend corrected her grammer, the only good thing about them). It just denotes to me that tey are very sad and unfulfilled in their personality/identity that they need to label themselves - you dress how to want to, you listen to wat you want to, if you are so contrived as to fit into one specific category of dress/music/interests, then you have my sympathy.